The Life of Ben

Living the Life as a Gay Dad.

July 29, 2014 at 2:02pm
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#Upsidedown ontop a #mountain #sunbathing

#Upsidedown ontop a #mountain #sunbathing

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So, is Jeffree Star too skinny? I’m not sure. I love his ink. His personality is kind of vulgar, but at least he has a personality. 

July 28, 2014 at 8:39pm
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Anonymous said: Do you ever travel to Sioux City, Vermillion, or Sioux Falls?

I just drove through Sioux Falls last week on my way to Minneapolis. 

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Anonymous said: that cutie with the blue hair and glasses in your mine shaft video is just a friend?!?! you guys didnt cuddle after that scary adventure?

He wouldn’t let me be the big spoon 

July 21, 2014 at 9:08pm
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#crocodile #smiles

#crocodile #smiles

July 19, 2014 at 2:25pm
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#mirror in an #elevator

#mirror in an #elevator

July 15, 2014 at 8:26am
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July 11, 2014 at 9:17pm
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Get featured in my next music video by uploading a photo of you and your ex together with the hashtag -> #hobbscotch

Get featured in my next music video by uploading a photo of you and your ex together with the hashtag -> #hobbscotch

July 10, 2014 at 5:48pm
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Swing Life Away

While I was cutting a tree down today I thought to myself how our lives are so much like this tree. We’re constantly taking swings at life trying to get a slice out of it. We may not get what we want out of life overnight, but eventually we will if we just keep swinging. ***Update, I did get this tree down today finally. Only took two evenings to get it down, but I managed.

July 9, 2014 at 3:25pm
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Anonymous said: Hi Ben, I'm a big fan. I live in California and gave come out as gay 3 years ago, through a friends party I met a boy who is Mormon who has told me he has feelings for me. He has told me that things aren't easy with his current GF and he isn't sure he wants to define himself with anything yet. We've been talking for a year and have many interactions together, but I feel like as long as he keeps talking to her we can't actually be anything together. What should I do?

Wait until he is done dating women. I would not try to pursue a guy unless I knew he was single and not hitting up girls for hookups. I can’t compete against girls for a Bi guy because they have boobs and I don’t :) Guys that claim they are bisexual are in for a future of lonliness because very few people will trust them with their hearts.